JOREL , ~Join Our Real Exciting Life~

Mummy got all these reasons from Babycentre which voice her feeling towards me

1 Panicking because you've been given this newborn baby to take home and you haven't even got the manual - then realising how much fun it is learning on the job.

Mummy said : In early state ,Jorel really drove me crazy and nearly got myself into depression. Eventually after two months ,I have got use to him and still learning .

2 Feeling a tiny fist curl around your finger when you touch his palm.

Mummy said : That feeling is indeed amazing for the very first time :)

3 Gazing into your baby's eyes and knowing he trusts you totally.

Mummy said : Jorel`s eyes really melts me

4 Being amazed the first time you wrap him up in his blanket, put him against your shoulder, pat him gently and incredibly the yelling stops!

Mummy said : It is a tough job

5 Being the most tired you've ever been in your whole life - and the most happy.

Mummy said : For him , Jorel is my everything .

6 Sitting up in bed feeding your baby in the middle of the night, and knowing that all over the world other mothers are doing just the same.

Mummy said : Being a Mummy is always the GREATEST .

7 Watching your partner`s parents show your son or daughter off to all the visitors.

Mummy said : My Parents and Parent in laws always did that .

8 Finding out, at your antenatal class reunion, that no one gets bored of your birth story, no matter how many times you tell it.

Mummy said : Eric always told our friends his experience how he seen Jorel the first time during the operation.

9 Overhearing your partner at a party talking earnestly about the best brand of nappy.

Mummy said : hahah ...I even heard Eric talking in his dream on which diaper is the best .

10 Watching your baby's sleeping face and wondering what the future holds for him.

Mummy said : I will try to give him all the best things that he need in his life

11 Taking him out for the first time and discovering that everyone wants to stop and talk.

Mummy said : Oh yes and everyone said Jorel is a sweet & handsome boy .

12 Experiencing that amazing feeling of tenderness when your baby falls asleep in your arms.

Mummy said : You can surely forget the tireness totally

13 Discovering how infectious a baby's giggles can be.

Mummy said : hahah .. Eric & me got addicted with his giggles

14 Exchanging a smile with other pram-pushing mothers.

Mummy said : All Mummy will do that cos every Mummy`s little ones are always the sweetest .

15 Discovering all the little characteristics that make your baby unique: fat toes, sticky-out ears, hair that sticks up no matter how much it's brushed.

Mummy said : Every little things` belong to Jorel is always unique .

16 Taking millions of photographs, which you keep meaning to put into an album, but never quite get round to it.

Mummy said : Taking photos of Jorel seen to be our hobby since his birth .

17 Knowing the right things to say and the best way to help when your friends have a baby.

18 Discovering that he's inherited your love of music or his dad's interest in racing cars.

Mummy said : Eric always said that Jorel will definately inherited his passion -KARATE

19 Waking up to a sloppy kiss from your toddler.

Mummy said : I really hope this day will be here soon

20 Rediscovering the simple pleasures in life: brightly coloured flowers, the softness of a cat's fur or the feel of sand between your toes, with your little one.

Mummy said : Jorel is learning to smile at things that he likes

21 Crying when you see a baby born on TV, understanding how mothers feel everywhere from Beijing to Belfast.

Mummy said : I always feel emotionally touch when I see this scene on tv .

22 Discovering the pleasures of three in a bed - even if you and your partner only have a few inches of space while your baby lies sideways across middle.

Mummy said : Everynights when Jorel sleeps , we will tell each other how happy and surpraise what we got from him .

23 Trying to answer those awkward questions: Do fish sleep? Why is the sky blue? How do cows have babies if they can't get married?

Mummy said : Hoping Daddy would come up with smart answers when the day comes.

24 Relishing the moment when he first says, "I love you, Mummy".

Mummy said : I promise that I will cry when I hear it the first time

25 Multi-tasking: learning how to mix up a bowl of cake mix with one hand while you stick a plaster on a toddler's knee with the other, breastfeed a baby and phone your mum to ask her what she wants for her birthday.

Mummy said : I`m still learning how to be in multi-tasking. I was amazed when I heard one of the Mummy in the forum can one hand breastfeed and on other pumping her milk .

26 Making a whole new circle of friends, who just happen to be parents, too.

Mummy said : Oh yes I learn and share alots from the Mummies from Singapore Motherhood forum .

27 Finding out that bringing up children gives your life a new sense of focus.

Mummy said : Jorel is my main focus .

28 Hearing your child say "mum" and wondering who that is, then realising - it's YOU!

Mummy said : I can`t wait to hear it from Jorel even in my dream

Milestone which I have progress

Physically and mentally
• Briefly lifts head
• Smiles directly at familiar faces
• Imitates facial expressions
• Shows obvious liking for visual stimulation
• Kicks and waves arms when excited
• Begins unclenching fists
• Correctly locates frontal sounds
• Personality traits start becoming more obvious
• May begin learning the relationship between cause and effect

Language and emotions
• Gurgles and squeals when happy
• Shows emotions more easily
• May repeat vowel noises like “ooh” and “aah”

• May pass stools less often than during the first month

Sleep
I`m now able to sleep for longer stretches in the night.Which allow Mummy & Daddy to rest well in the night .